Sunday, November 30, 2008

Family Time




I had to post some of these pictures because my little brother is the cutest thing in the world! My dad and his wife came down to Southern California with my brother, Carson, for Thanksgiving. We decided to take some pictures on the beach for their Christmas cards.

We had such a fun time while they were visiting, Brooke and I got some stuff together for Thanksgiving dinner the night before. We did good, we made homemade cranberries, candied yams, green bean casserole. It was fun! My dad taught us how to make his famous homemade Minestrone soup and Cream of Artichoke Heart soup. SO GOOD! We went on walks everyday and just relaxed and played games. Darren and I fell in love with my brother, and Darren says he wants to have a baby now :P It was so peaceful to spend time with them. I'm Thankful for my family.

Sunday, November 23, 2008

Good Friends


Last night Darren and I went over to Stacey and Charisse's house for dinner. When we left the house that night it was cold and dark, it reminded me of the holidays up in Northern California. We all brought our favorite Thanksgiving dish for an early celebration! Brian was down from Grass Valley and Lauren and Austin drove from LA. It felt like a high school reunion and we had so much fun remembering memories from high school. Lauren and Hayley and I laughed so hard about the craziest things and I told Darren on the way home that I felt like a I was 15 again for a little while! Before we ate dinner we all got in a circle and held hands while Darren prayed for us. When everyone closed their eyes, I kept mine open and just looked around at all the people around me. I felt so grateful that I had so many really close friends in my life. I feel so blessed to know that I still have my best friends from high school and that we can still spend time together and love and enjoy each other so much! Not everyone is so lucky :)

Saturday, November 8, 2008

reflections in the park

When Jesus was asked about the Kingdom of God, he tells a story, in one of his stories he describes a mustard plant. In this story he explains that the Kingdom of God is like a mustard plant, one of the smallest of seeds, but once it grows it spreads into a tree that allows the birds of the air to nest and rest on. An interesting description for the Kingdom of God. Looking at the church these days, I wonder if the institutional church has forgotten this story, we seem to think we are to establish our presence and make our points on top of a soap box, or pulpit, we have set up shop, claimed territory and built our sanctuaries. We have over and over again built our trees expecting birds to nest and find their rest, but I wonder if this what Jesus intended to build was something much different, something less visible, something more like a mustard plant.

Alex and I found ourselves in the park on Sunday, as we walked towards a group gathering we soon learned that there was a “no on prop 8” rally going on. Congressman and women, the Long Beach mayor, along with hundreds and hundreds of men and women against this prop most likely due to their lifestyle and sexual preferences. We watched as hundreds of men and women held hands, signs and raised their voices in their desperate efforts to hold on to an equal right. As we stood in the center of this rally both of us felt an unusual sadness, a deep burden; some type of grief. We were filled with compassion for our new neighbors. They longed to claim their right to love, to love whom ever they wanted and to have the same freedoms that any heterosexual would take for granted at any marriage ceremony they have attended or participated in. What was so significant about this event? Well, we listened to a reverend come up and give a speech on God that was so far from truth, so false and so pathetic that all I could do was cringe with my theological frustrations and irrefutable evidence for fallacy, yet I wasn’t angry, just sad. Then as we walked out of the park and noticed the few “yes on 8 signs” and the angry man holding the sign yelling his judgmental views and convictions on and at people, it was at this point that I felt anger. Anger? Anger for the judgment and form of communication that this protester chose to demonstrate his understanding biblical truths. It was at this point that this parable came back to my mind, the “mustard plant.”

I stood in the middle of a crowd that desperately desired to hold on to a legal right to get married. A group of gay and lesbians protesting their rights, along two pictures of the church; one completely accepting and lacking truth, one completely rejecting and lacking in grace and then, there was, a young couple full of compassion. Standing in the middle of the crowd I prayed that there would be seeds planted, small unnoticeable seeds that would one day grow. As we learn to love people for who they are and not what they should be, we plant seeds that when the time comes will become a tree, a mustard tree and the birds will find their place and they too will find their rest. Until then.

Friday, November 7, 2008

Photos From Today!


My Newfound Love for Long Beach

As most of you know, Darren and I recently moved to Long Beach. It has officially been 1 week today.

When we began talking about Long Beach over a year ago, I was less than thrilled to think of leaving our place in Newport. But over the last year we have spent more time here and I found myself ready to take the plunge and move. So we counted down the days and relied on our friends recommendations on neighborhoods for apartment hunting. And here we are!

We have had a surprisingly peaceful transition and, besides having to give up our kitty, we LOVE our new apartment and the city. We spent our first morning wandering around a Walmart in downtown. It was actually a little bit overwhelming. More people were speaking Spanish than English and there were barefoot children running around everywhere climbing on my cart, pushing me and running into everything. And there was already Christmas music playing:P It took about and hour but we made it out safely. It really was my first taste of the diversity that is Long Beach.

My morning drives have been really neat. I work in Newport Beach two days a week, Darren and I commute together. And two days a week I work in Lakewood. I have been exploring different routes every morning so I can learn the streets and beat the 7th street traffic. I haven't found a quicker route, but I have been able to get a better feel for some different neighborhoods in the city. I have driven by lots of schools and sometimes I feel like I'm in a movie. I'm a suburban white girl driving in a foreign place. I am certainly a minority in these neighborhoods, most of the kids on their way to school are black or hispanic. There are dozens of people waiting for public transportation, many are walking. I have looked forward to the drive and am grateful for the exposure I am getting and the familiarity I am gaining.

Mickey came and stayed the night with us that first weekend. We went on a walk down the street to a park. There was a huge group of people gathered and we went over to check it out. It was a huge "No on Prop 8" rally. We stuck around for awhile to hear what they had to say and more so to observe the people that were there. There is a large homosexual population in Long Beach and they seem to be very active in the community. There is a huge Gay Pride parade here and I think a few Gay churches. While at this rally I just felt such a heavy heart for those who felt hated and discriminated against. It was a really emotional time and I just prayed for the people there as we walked.

Last night we went to dinner downtown at a place called Allegria, it was really good. There is so much diversity and culture in this city. We sat outside so we could watch people walk by. We just took it all in.

Today we went on a bike ride down to Ocean and over to downtown for the Farmer's Market. I guess I never realized that Long Beach is a big city, but found out today! I loved all of the tall buildings and the public transit. Darren and I marveled at all of the old brick buildings and the character that the city has. We were really excited when we rode by the filming of CSI Miami (apparently it's not really filmed in Miami). We rode by a couple of times to see the cast :)

So there's a little update. I feel like I am learning so much and finally beginning to feel comfortable in this new place. What started as fear and hesitation has turned in to excitement for this adventure. I want to meet people, experience the culture, get outside of my box. And I feel like all of the doubts I had about us planting a church in this place are slowly dissipating one by one. And God is so awesome that He eased me into it all. He is so good.

:) Alex




Tuesday, August 12, 2008

our Panama trip

Check out this short video from our trip.

http://vimeo.com/1510761

al

This is from our trip up to Nevada City...